I think it is of no surprise that people who are in position of power, or fame, or gets lots of money are often offered lots of sexual gratification from many different women (and men) – and really, I think a majority of America does not really care if you are rich and or powerful if you have sex with multiple people, but doing it when you are on the clock, well that’s not much different than a local public service worker getting caught picking up a hooker in a city owned trick while on the clock.

With most of the world not really caring if you engaging in sex chat, or even slightly adult conversation with people in the virtual world, why abuse the freedom by doing it work? If you can not resist doing it work, then at least keep it just during your lunch break, or clock out first. It’s hard enough to untarnish your image when people find out you have been looking at or sending dirty pictures and messages online, it’s enough tougher if you find yourself without a job.

If you must be in contact with a flirt affair or something at work, do not do it on the company phone, do not use the company computer, and do not leave evidence laying around your desk, the trash can, the water cool, or even other people’s inboxes. Use a different cell phone even! If you look at the details that came out of the Weiner sex scandal, you can clearly see that he did not follow that advice, and everybody should. My suggestion is this, play it safe, don’t have sex at work, even if it’s cyber sex or just cyber flirting.

When you use electronics to do dirty things at work, it’s just like having sex on the copier. Many years ago,  you might be able to get away with that after hours, or during the company holiday party. Back then you could take the copies with you and jerk off to them later, and most bosses wouldn’t freak out if you used up a few cents of the good card stock when you got it on. These days, those digital copiers not only shoot out a copy for you to take home, but they also keep another copy stored on a little hard drive. So if you get caught up in a sex scandal, Lisa in accounting may not even have the hard copies that you took home with you, but she will probably opt to show the dress with the cum stain and get a computer forensic analyst to pull the dirty pics so she can get her 15 minutes of fame, and maybe some cash for showing up on hard copy.

With so many ways of getting caught, it’s just not worth it. Security cameras are everywhere, the person on the other end might have a change of heart when things are not going as well, heck even an ex lover of your flirt interest might hack into her facebook or emails or phone texts and try to expose it to the world simply for revenge.  You never know what will happen. You also can’t count on the technology itself.

Twitter might notify you that your account info has been requested by investigators, but do you think that facebook is going to be able to retrieve and hand out messages and pics? Even deleted ones? You bet your ass they will. Your phone company is storing data on you and so are these other popular phone apps / messaging services as well. So just don’t do it. Save the dirty messaging for after work – heck even dirty messages you send your wife at work can be snooped on by your employer and that geek in the IT department, so keep your dick in your pants and keep it off of twitter – at least until you get home.

respect

Many gals I have seen in the chat rooms are quite eager to engage in sexual fantasy, they just want to make sure they are given the proper respect and introduction, the textual foreplay if you will. Sure there are girls out there that just want to jump into a room, find someone to fuck, and then log off and go back to their busy lives quickly, but a majority of the women I find in the chat rooms want more. Even the dirtiest girls who want really perverted sexual stimulation often want to have respect when in a chat lobby or real lobby for that matter.

In most chat room lobbies I have seen 90 percent of guys that get no play, and a few men who get all of the attention from the ladies. The main things I see that guys who get play do are: spell most words correctly, have manners and patience with introductions, and talk with respect. A majority of the guys who tend to get little if any attention, and probably end up on the ignore or bozo button are as follows: spelling mistakes, crude and rude comments, Pming or private messaging girls without asking. Of course there are several other factors involved as well, but these are things I notice on a regular basis.

Screen names and overall chat demeanor certainly can influence whether girls want to talk with you in private or not. Choosing a good screen name should be easy, yet I find most of guy’s screen name choices just simply make them sound desperate, not the way to get women eager to talk to you. How you interact with other people in the room will affect how much interest women will have in getting to know you better as well. If you are confident and funny, and spell things correctly, then women will be more likely to enjoy engaging in private conversations with you. If you are very crude and rude, then most women will not be as friendly to private messaging offers.

Of course this info and advice is not true for all women, or men for that matter. There certainly are women int he world who are looking for rude and crude men, and there are plenty of women players out there that enjoy taken dumb men down a notch in virtual rooms, but this is general advice from what I have noticed in the general rooms.

Just like in real life, there are some women who will talk to you if you are rude and dumb, but a majority of the girls are looking for smart, funny, and respectful gentlemen to woo them into releasing their dirtier side slowly. Practice textual foreplay and you will get more end play. If you can do that, you may end up with several regular online sex partners, and have women fighting for access to your private message box. You may even find a real connection offline from a bit of foreplay work online.