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Does this mean that women are in jeopardy of letting down men, and risking an anticlimax from wearing a push up bra? From what I can tell in the description of these underwear, they add lift and hold, not padding like a rubber hose to look like Elvis or Mandingo. Besides, once you get to the bedroom and the clothes come off, it’s 99 percent likely you are going to be getting some sex.

Sure, women may be disappointed if they thin they are getting a well endowed man, and instead it’s just average, but maybe they will get a great cunt licking or finger banging, and end up having the best sex of their life. If using a little push and hold garment is supposed to cause anticlimax, then there would be a lot of very unsatisfied men in the world. If you take into account the amount of push up bras, and waist slimming devices that women use, on top of the make up and everything else.

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Rather than call it the possibility for anti-climax, I would call the possibility of not getting another date. Assuming that a majority of the men sporting these push up undies are going out trying to get some ass for V-day, as most of the people who already have dates for the day are probably already getting the nookie without need to pretend to have a bigger cock. I guess that kind of goes both ways, I am sure there are plenty of men who though they were getting a girl with big voluptuous boobs, flawless skin, and a tiny waist, yet after getting naked, they find a lot of that illusion was caused by makeup, bras, and cinchers. So I guess both sexes do that they can to get some sex, I just wonder why the author of the news story is making the guys to be at fault. I think they are just taking a cure from the women.

Well I am going to have to try a pair of these. Purely for testing and reporting reasons. Well, there is that, plus this:

The new push up design enhances the male anatomy through a lifting and support feature on the front of the briefs, the support is without compression thus allowing the wearer superb comfort.

(From the Dabenhams online catalogue)

Why do men with lovers masturbate?

Why are women so confused about why men masturbate so much? Because there are many reasons, and I think a lot of women assume there is only one reason to jerk off, therefor many woman get upset when they find their boyfriend or husband masturbates. If you could set aside your emotions for ten minutes and listen to reason, I am going to clue you in on a few things about guys jerking off, or wanking as they say in the UK.

I have heard from many girls who are upset that their man was flogging the dolphin, they were upset, and some were downright angry. The had all kinds of questions like:

• “Why would he masturbate when he could be having sex with me?”
• “Why does he masturbate so much”
• “What’s wrong with me, why does he have to jerk off?”
• “He makes time for porn videos and dirty mags but no me, what gives?”

Well, I am not sure that I can cover every detail of this complex issue, but I do want to raise some awareness about it and give you all some insight and clues.

Why would a guy masturbate when he could be having sex with his wife or girlfriend? Well there are many reasons.

We masturbate for different reasons at different times. I think many women believe that guys choke the chicken because they are horny, and logic would say in a woman’s mind, if you are horny, then come flirt with us and let’s have sex. Well, it’s no where near that simple.

It’s a time issue – and so are you

Sometimes we want to cum just to relieve stress, and doing a quick “flute solo” can bring stress relief fast. It’s also a great way to prepare for sleep, as it can make you more tired. Now before you get defensive or start arguing and telling me that having sex with a girl can achieve those goals, I

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know, you are right, but that is not the entire equation. It gets more complicated than that. Men are logical thinkers, and the decision to get off by ourselves is like a complex algebra equation.

When time is of the essence, like when we need to get to sleep soon, or we have a few minutes break to relieve stress, or there is something stressful coming up and we need quick relaxation, masturbation is one of the quickest and most efficient answers. Having sex with your gf or wifey is normally not one of the quickest answers.

Understand that there has been a lot of programming in the media about women needing lots of foreplay and, and deserving loving passionate love making. It’s a man’s job to satisfy his woman, which can take time. When it comes to sex men are under pressure to perform, and to hold back their pleasure to make sure that the woman gets hers first. I believe Dr. Ruth and Sue Johanson both say that the man should finish the job, even if he cums first, he should take the time to “manually stimulate” or “orally stimulate” the female to orgasm. Now I love to finger fuck and eat pussy quite a bit, but doing that after ejaculating is not easy. With all that pressure and expectation, it is definitely faster and easier to just stroke the cock myself, dry off, and get back to work or sleep or whatever else is on the agenda.

Now there can be exceptions to this, in a perfect world a man could grab his girl at any time of the day and say “hey I need to get a nut real quick!” – and then his girl could offer some pussy, or a blowjob, or even to strip and give a little show while he jerks off. Perhaps it would help make it faster if our girl would kiss the nick and whisper dirty thoughts in our ear to help make it faster. I am willing to bet most people do not feel that they have this option in their relationship, and even if you did, having access to your girl 24/7 is pretty rare as well.

Relationship expert John Gray says in one of his books that it would be beneficial to the relationship if quickie sex was on option, basically if the girl would let the guy just stick it in and fuck her for a couple minutes to get off once in a while. He said this would be nice for the man, and the man should reciprocate with giving loving passionate sex with lots of foreplay several times a month – to have a balance of both options. I agree, unfortunately as I mentioned before, even with that option in the relationship, you rarely have access to your woman 24/7, so masturbation is still an option that wins often.

Jerking off can get fantasies off the mind

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Yeah, I know, your wife or girlfriend should be our ultimate fantasy. Well my current GF is, but there are still some dirty things that I want to spank the monkey to, that I don’t want to or can’t do with her. Masturbating to a dirty fantasy gets it off the mind, and allows us to go about our day without wasting more time on it. If we couldn’t jack off, we might be out trying find sexual encounters that we not health to our relationships or ourselves.

I would not trade my girlfriend for Paris Hilton, Pamela Anderson, Danika Patrick, or any other celebrity or porn star. Seriously, I wouldn’t, I love my girl, and she really is what I have been looking for my entire life. However, I might have a fantasy of having ass to mouth anal group sex with the above mentioned celebrities, combined with a gangbang on Sasha Grey. Playing with the dick, getting it our of the system, and back to the real world in under 5 minutes. That gets the idea out of the head, and does it safely. No STD’s, no wasting time trying make a threesome or gangbang happen.

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We could fantasize about all kinds of dirty things. In one episode of the Sopranos Melfy asked “Why don’t you do those thing with your wife? (instead of with a mistress” – Tony said – are you kiddin’ she kisses my kids with that mouth. Something like that. A2m and group sex are two examples of things that guys may enjoy jerking off to, but may not want to really do in real life, and even if we did, probably not with the wife or gf.

We can usually do it faster, and in some ways better

We have dicks for a long time, and we have had a lot of time practice. We have had the time to hone the skills of manually manipulating our penis to achieve maximum pleasure in the shortest amount of time. We have had to train our mind and body for efficient sexual gratification. There is no way you can jerk off the cock better than we can. Even if you knew every hand-job trick in the book, you have to realize that all men have slightly different techniques and amount of pressure in different places at certain times in the process that brings them to their unique pleasure perfection. You can not be expected to stroke cock better than we can.

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Many aspect of the dick stroking becomes subconscious, we don’t have to consciously think “Too intense, need to lighten index finger pressure near head of penis” – it just happens, and quickly. There is no need for us to think, hey, I am in the last stage before lift-off, I am going to need to push down harder toward the base. It just happens. Even if you could read our minds, you could not adjust your hand and fingers in precisely the right place at the right time to provide the most efficient hand job.

There is a taboo to it – makes the heart and blood run faster

Masturbation is kind of taboo. Yeah, we know most everyone does it, but rarely does anyone talk about it, or do it in front of anybody. Getting caught masturbating is a serious anxiety issue for most people. You learn at an early age to keep it quiet, and make it quick. If there are other people in the house, or at work, or in the car coming up behind you, it makes your heart beat faster. This trains your body and mind to make it exciting, and make it quicker.

This rush feeling of hurried excitement combined with sexual arousal is intense sometimes. Achieving orgasm is a serious release for a man, and when that huge release and relaxation comes after a hurried, intense, heart racing worry of getting caught, it’s incredible. I’m not sure a woman will ever understand how relaxing, how much energy ejaculating instantly sucks out of your body. Imagine, something like an epideral maybe? Or when a pain pill kicks in, that feeling of woomph – whoa – total relaxation and energy drain. Well that feels good, and it feels especially good right after high heart rate excitement.

What can ya do huh?

There are many more reasons that men play with themselves, but this post is already getting long, so I am hoping that this helps you understand that a guy getting himself off has nothing to do with a lack of desire for you. If you understand there are different reasons for different times, maybe you won’t get upset, angry or judgmental and perhaps find some ways to accommodate these issues if you really want to be more involved.

As I mentioned above, time is an issue sometimes. Perhaps you can communicate with your partner that you would be willing to help him get off with no “return the favor strings attached” if he felt the need to get a quick nut. There are many ways you can help make it even faster! There are things that men enjoy that are near impossible to do by ourselves, if you lend a hand, or a tongue, or whisper – that would make it even better and quicker.

My girlfriend recently inquired about me watching porn and jerking off, and she said she might like to be involved if she was home. So we tried that out, and it was awesome! We watched some porn together, and she sucked my cock while I clicked through some videos. We talked about some of the porn, and she chimed in with stuff that she liked and didn’t like. We have now found a few genres of porn we can enjoy together. She has also offered to help me cum if I need to quickly.

Just because we can stroke our own dicks better than anyone else, doesn’t mean the sex is better by ourselves. We can’t lick our own necks, and tossing your own salad is something that I think very few men could ever do. There are many things that women can do that make an orgasm a hundred times better than just a hand job.

So don’t be threatened by your guy’s beating off, it’s natural. It has nothing to do with a lack of desire for you. Take some of the pressure off your man, and he should reciprocate with more pleasure for you.

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It started with kissing and making out, some teasing and the fucking on the couch. She didn’t even have her shirt all the way off, but I could see her big tits bouncing just fine in the dark, as the light from the TV cast a great silhouette of her big breasts in my face. I almost came inside her right there and she fucked hard and breathed on my neck, but she whisked me away to her bedroom before I could nut.

Once we made it to the bed I started doing her with me on top, in the missionary position, I wanted to give it to her hard and grind my body onto her clit, as I know many women really enjoy that and get off with that kind of action. She took it well and came and actually fucked me back, grinding her hips up and onto me. That wasn’t enough for her, she turned over and put her ass in the air.

She wanted doggystyle, and the way she slowly spread her legs and inched back towards me I could tell she wanted to show off her perfect ass and legs. She wanted to slowly push her pussy close to me, and as I found the hole with my cock, she lunged back hard and started bucking. She may have been slow and sensual for a minute, but she wanted it hard and I gave it to her. Pounding that pussy hard, she did all kinds of sexy things, I will save that for another post.

I couldn’t take it anymore, I had to cum.  She was hot, she was wild, and she was talking dirty all at the same time. I could see her perfect ass and my dick going in and out. It was awesome! I cam on her ass, and then rolled over on my back to kiss her. That’s when I could tell that she wasn’t done yet, she wanted more.

I am pretty sure that she had come three or four times already, but she still wanted more sex, the way she was kissing me passionately I could tell she wanted to educe me to go for round two. She kissed me deeply and rubbed my chest. She rubbed her boobs on me and ran her hand down to my dick. When she felt that I was only half hard, she rolled over on her back so we we side by side and she grabbed her new rabbit vibrator I helped her shop for, turned it on, and stuffed it between her legs.

This definitely turns me on, she was laying there, covered in sweat and sex, and starting to push the vibrator in and out of her pussy. This was one of the higher end rabbit vibes, it turns and spins and vibrates and even has pink LED lights pulsating. Seeing that I decided to turn around on the bed to get a closer view of the lighted dildo penetrating her pussy. She didn’t get shy about it, and that made it so much hotter. In fact she spread her legs a little and started moaing. She really got into it, and I loved to see her fucking herself, with the LED lights there it was a beautiful view. She started to rub her tits and I lent her a hand rubbing her boobs in the same fashion as she was. I am pretty sure she came again during all of this, but she wanted more of my dick, she told me to put it in her mouth.

So I moved over a little and put my dick right next to her head, she turned and moved a bit to swallow my cock. I am still trying to rub her tits and still watching her grind that dildo into her cunt. I wish I could have seen the overhead view of this incredible sex scene, but the view I had was pretty damn good and she was sucking my cock like she was a human penis pump trying to get it hard as she wanted more of the dick too.

I decided to try something a little kinky, as she definitely got my dick super hard and I was more than ready for round two. I turned around so our bodies made an almost L shape on the bed and put my dick up to her, and pushed it in her pussy slowly. With the vibrator and my cock in her it got pretty tight and the vibrator actually slowed down it’s gyration a bit because of the pressure. The vibrations still continued full speed and did some in and out, but mostly kind of kept my dick inside her as she worked the vibrator to her liking.

At this point she either got a little frustrated with the lack of dildo gyration and dick insertion, or just wanted some anal sex. She reached down with her other hand, pulled my dick out of her pussy and placed the tip of it in her ass. She whispers to me, “I want you to fuck me in the ass”. So I started going real slow, but she was already so hyped up on our sex and her pussy was so wet that it didn’t take long before she pushed down hard on my dick and started pushing in and out with the vibrator. I was pumping her ass, still laying sideways, trying to rub her big tits, and seeing the light show between her legs, the whole knowing my cock is going in and out of her ass. I could feel the vibrations through her pussy and ass. It was mind blowing how incredibly sexual this entire experience was for me, and I could tell by her moaning and back arching that it was working for her as well.

I had to come, there was no way I could hold back. All of these incredible sexual things happening at once, with a beautiful woman, it was awesome. I pulled out and came really hard, and she smiled and kept fucking herself. I watched for a while, but I passed out. It was so much intense sex that I just completely exhausted myself with over-excitement. I need to practice sex like this more often so I can handle it more like the tantric sex practitioner I want to be, but getting practice like this on a regular basis isn’t easy in this crazy busy world.

Anyhow, I woke up like maybe an hour later or something to the sound of a vibrator humming softly in and out. She whispers “Did you have a good nap?”. That’s when I realized that it wasn’t a dream, and this erotic fantasy was still going. She asked me to fuck her with the dildo as her hand and arm were getting tired. This was definitely a happy way to awaken.

We ended up fucking some more, we tried the double-vaginal-penetration sex with my cock and the vibrator, we did some more anal sex while the vibrator was in her pussy for some more double-penetration action. This time I got into differnt positions so I could see everything down there, a better view of how she fucked herself while I fucked her other hole. I enjoy learning what women like by watching how they do it themselves.

I ended up cumming on her tits, and I just didn’t have anymore energy after that. It was almost 5 or six in the morning, the sun had started change the night sky, and I was beat. I lay next to her and told her how incredible she was. I told her how fucking hot the whole night had been. She continued to fuck herself with the vibrator and went for more orgasms.

I kind of woke up a little while later when she threw the vibrator on the floor and cussed a little about the batteries going dead. I put my arm around her and reminded myself that this wasn’t a dream. She out fucked me, and the rabbit vibrator. She must have cum about 20 times. I love mature women now more than ever. That sexual prime thing at 30 is no joke, in fact it’s more real now that I am dating women over 30. It’s motivation to do more PC exercises and start getting more tantric.

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Many gals I have seen in the chat rooms are quite eager to engage in sexual fantasy, they just want to make sure they are given the proper respect and introduction, the textual foreplay if you will. Sure there are girls out there that just want to jump into a room, find someone to fuck, and then log off and go back to their busy lives quickly, but a majority of the women I find in the chat rooms want more. Even the dirtiest girls who want really perverted sexual stimulation often want to have respect when in a chat lobby or real lobby for that matter.

In most chat room lobbies I have seen 90 percent of guys that get no play, and a few men who get all of the attention from the ladies. The main things I see that guys who get play do are: spell most words correctly, have manners and patience with introductions, and talk with respect. A majority of the guys who tend to get little if any attention, and probably end up on the ignore or bozo button are as follows: spelling mistakes, crude and rude comments, Pming or private messaging girls without asking. Of course there are several other factors involved as well, but these are things I notice on a regular basis.

Screen names and overall chat demeanor certainly can influence whether girls want to talk with you in private or not. Choosing a good screen name should be easy, yet I find most of guy’s screen name choices just simply make them sound desperate, not the way to get women eager to talk to you. How you interact with other people in the room will affect how much interest women will have in getting to know you better as well. If you are confident and funny, and spell things correctly, then women will be more likely to enjoy engaging in private conversations with you. If you are very crude and rude, then most women will not be as friendly to private messaging offers.

Of course this info and advice is not true for all women, or men for that matter. There certainly are women int he world who are looking for rude and crude men, and there are plenty of women players out there that enjoy taken dumb men down a notch in virtual rooms, but this is general advice from what I have noticed in the general rooms.

Just like in real life, there are some women who will talk to you if you are rude and dumb, but a majority of the girls are looking for smart, funny, and respectful gentlemen to woo them into releasing their dirtier side slowly. Practice textual foreplay and you will get more end play. If you can do that, you may end up with several regular online sex partners, and have women fighting for access to your private message box. You may even find a real connection offline from a bit of foreplay work online.

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The places are for mature people over the age of 18, everyone should act that way! Be mature and have some respect, if you disagree, do it politely. There is no sense in starting a flame war and ruining the fun for everyone else who is looking to have a ripe good time.

In most moderated places online if you start to talk about hate or just come off as plain rude, you will find yourself not only the bane of everyone else’s conversations, but frozen or banned my a moderator. So act mature, speak with respect and you will probably get that back. Get caught up in drama may get you permanently banned from using the free services that abound on the internet.

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When I first stumbled upon this gal’s live video, all I could see was her big boobs. She then moved the camera and turned around, showing her nice stomach and then her ass. My girlfriend and I were just waiting for her to show her face and end up being a “butt-her-face” ugly girl. Wow, we were surprised! The wait for her to get her smiling face back on camera was worth it! She is really quite a beautiful woman.

Reading the sexual conversation in the free text chat room made me realize that she is not shy with her intimate side either. She is ready to explore fantasies and share hers with the world as well. Definitely a fun girl to watch, and a fun girl to talk to. I am glad we found her today.

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Not only was she very attentive in the chat room, and happy to answer questions, and offer more of her sexual self in the private area, you can tell that she is ready to push the limits, and do it with enthusiasm! She took off her top and starting playing with boobs so we could she that she is not shy, and ready to get down and dirty on cam.

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Apparently she is happy to show and tell. Talking about and showing us finger fucking, anl sex play, anal beads, vibrating pussy play, and all with a zoom camera; this girl is a professional. I love finding girls like this, such a rare woman indeed.