Apparently this company sets up motion detectors inside the house and can give you data about your elderly parents that includes how many times they opened a refrigerator, and how much time was spent in the bathroom. Reading this article at the Christian Science Monitor makes me think that things have gotten a little too technological, when there are more logical solutions. I could see someone going this over bearing route if there was genuine concern about them living okay every day, but I do not think that the average senior is in that much danger, and if so, wouldn’t a nursing home be the wiser decision? Maybe this is a cheaper option, I am not sure, but certainly there are other ways to make life safer and more comfortable.

I know they say the trend is to want to stay at home, and make things work there instead of moving to a retirement community, but personally I would rather have some close friends who keep up with my daily hellos than to have to have an online babysitter watching my every move. Recording data about my bathroom time and refrigerator plundering is not going to do much good for my overall well being. Maybe it would make people happy to know this info, but I would rather have a friend walk over and see for themselves that I am not overeating, and that I am still eating.

Is someone who is keeping on eye on me, and getting paid to care about how my day is going, really going to have my best interest in mind, or are they just getting paid to read some lines? How long before there is a knockoff company that employs some people in India to video chat with me all in the name of  caring. How many people will be reading lines, and how long before those human interactions are replaced by a chat bot from Russia. Certainly that would be better than having an airline traffic controller falling asleep while pretending to care about my safety.

I do look forward to some of the other cool technology that will make senior living better, things like testers in toilets that can instantly tell you if you blood sugar is too high, or you need to cut back on the salt. Personally I hope to find enough real life friends through the sex chat rooms to have some video chat friends who care about me for being not, not because they are getting paid to babysit.

Of course there are plenty of added bonuses with this kind of thing, the motion sensors and video cameras may catch a would be burglar, even if it is your cousin Ed poaching the deviled eggs from the fridge. I wonder if the tele-caregivers will be sharing videos of granny getting it on in the kitchen with the plumber. If grandma ends up making a sex tape we may find out how much the adult babysitters are really watching. I bet they will see more pants down moments than catching anything else. We’ll see.

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Most of the really down and dirty girls I have known keep it more on the down low. Not that it’s a huge secret they never talk about, surely they do exude some sexuality and flirtatiousness here and there, but you wouldn’t just look at them and think, “Yeah that girl is into some freaky fucking, she really enjoys anal, and wants multiple orgasms in multiple positions, sex toys, and more.” – You might think, or at least I certainly thought, that these girls were fairly reserved, and probably would take many dates and serious relationships to get them to even give it up. Normally when I think of reserved women like that, I do not think that they are ready for some sex toys enhanced DP action, and ready to watch some hardcore porn while getting fucking from behind so you can both see.

The really dirty girls I have known and loved did for the most part have that slightly coy, and lady in public kind of persona. Boy was I blown away to find them asking for anal fucking and ready to explore naughtier sex with things like watching porn and talking about doing the positions and sex acts contained within. I love the girls who are not afraid to open themselves up to all kinds of carnal pleasures behind closed doors. Sure there are those freaks who are totally out there, girls like Belladonna and Tory Lane, but I have really enjoyed many happy smiles thinking about the truly nasty little sluts that are hiding beneath the surface of some of the nicest girls I have known.

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I mean, if you ran into Bobbi Star, or Mya Nichole, and they were in some plain Jane clothes and shopping in the grocery store, would you think in your head that they are some really dirty girls who are opening up their assholes while getting fucking and having pussy juice and cum squirted into their gaping assholes? Probably not. So here is my salute to you, all you dirty girls, your multi-orgasmic ecstasy makes me happy in the pants just thinking about. If you ever want to talk about some kinky sex – don’t bother. If you want to so some really dirty deeds, hit me up.

virtual sunglasses sing more?

We do not publish all of the comments that are left on our blog, and we at time delete posts that are made in the forums. We generally ask for permission to post excerpts of emails that are sent if the sender agrees to it. We’ve got a pretty big back log of email conversations that we need to edit before publishing, and mainly for the benefit of our moderators. We engage each other in conversations through the chat room and emails as well. So I am thinking, what would make it easier for the regular users to open up and discuss more in the forums and blog posts?

We have considered making it so that an email address was no longer required for adding comments to the blog. The main reason we have that requirement is to cut down on the spam that spam bots try to get published. It also makes it possible for people to select an avatar or gravatar to appear next to their screen name in the posts. It’s also a great way for us to email you back privately if you ask us to. I know many people are shy about sharing a real email addy with an adult site, and I don’t blame you!

None of us want to share an email with a site and have to worry about getting spammed, or added to a list that gets sold to other shady companies. We do not do that here, and perhaps if we updated our privacy policy to reflect our actually practices you might feel more comfortable sharing? Personally I think privacy policies get to be too long, and inundated with a bunch of legal mumbo jumbo that makes every site seem sound like a user’s privacy is important, until you read the fine print and find out you have to opt out of some shit in order to save some of your privacy. So I have been thinking about sharing more privacy tools and tips for users to feel more comfortable about sharing real and general feelings and thoughts.

I think it’s great that we are all able to find some adults only time and space on the internet, and are comfortable engaging other people for sexual and other conversations. I think even with this perceived safety zone, we all still hold back a little, and if we all had some more privacy knowledge, tools, and know how, we would all share even more. So look for new tips from some experts to be shared here soon, and I invite you to share your thoughts about what would make it easier or more comfortable for you to share in the public forums and comments sections of the site. I know a lot of real hot talk goes on in the private messaging of the chat rooms, but we could all be engaging others 24-7 by making more publicly accessible comments and posts, which would help us all connect with many more like minded and perhaps not-so-like-minded adults around the world, which would give even more opportunities to share and learn from others. I am looking forward to it.

I remember a news story a while back that talked about how people act different when they are in a dark environment – be it a dark club or when wearing sunglasses. I need to find that news story. I think that when people have some virtual sunglasses on while online (using privacy tools) – we may see more openness.

Moving and banging into to things, and hurting your knuckles and back are bad enough, but after the move, and it’s time to organize and redeploy art and stuff, things got really serious. Suddenly we had to debate things that we liked and didn’t like, and did so on a purely adult level. No being nice and coy, no making amends simply because you want to keep your nightly sex partner happy, this time it was real. Suddenly, we found out that we did not have that much in common when it comes to decorating, and other priorities as well.

It was quite startling to see that we both had very different priorities on several things – orders that things get done.  Quite stressful and interesting to see that we did not really have as much in common outside the bedroom. Very interesting situation to find ourselves in after dating for a couple years. More on this later.

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This is kind of what happens after a few months of being in a rebound relationship. One day we just woke up and realized that we did not know each other that well, and perhaps we had not made the best choice for such a long term relationship.

Safer sex prostitutes or swingers?

Of course it is hard to get people to be honest about their sexuality when talking to clinic staff and even doctors. Certainly there will always be people who contract STDs from prostitutes or swinger sex actions – but getting people to be honest about their sexual activity with health professionals and tracking it will never be an exact science.
It seems like the a pretty good study, better than I expected actually.
However in your town or city, I would not expect the numbers to be exactly the same, and it is going to be hard to compare apples to apples. In some towns the swinger clubs and swing parties are completely crazy – all out open sex fests with little regard to safety. One of my local swing clubs is actually very much the opposite, more of a place to meet, and I have heard people talk about condoms, safe sex practices and even testing before wife swapping on several occasions.
Comparing the prostitutes that were part of this study in the Netherlands is going to be tough as well. I am sure that when most people think of prostitutes, they probably think of the street walking hookers you might see in the ghetto area of you hometown, but I am not sure that the whores that were tracked int his study were the same kind of hookers. I wouldn’t bet, but I would imagine the street walking poor hookers that work the streets of many cities probably have a higher rate of infections than the girls in the Netherlands study.
If you compare the STD rates of higher class call girls to street walking hookers you may find a difference, and if you compared the group of drunk swingers who engage in crazy sex without concern about disease to other groups of swingers who are more responsible about who and how they get intimate with, you would probably find a difference there too.
I imagine that you would also find big differences in different cities as well. Places where prostitution is legal and regulated probably have less STDs, and cities that provide good health care through STD clinics probably have less transmissions through prostitutes than cities that do not provide low cost sexual care. I don’t know if there are good research numbers to prove any of that, if anyone does know, leave me a comment so we can provide that info.
Either way, we also may not be considering different types of STDs as well. Some clinics do not routinely screen for HPV and herpes, only the other popular ones.
However you want to look at, I think it is good to know that swinging does carry a strong risk of sexually transmitted diseases. Safer sex, and STD testing is certainly recommended by me. I have thought about having a STD checkup available at the local swingers club – I think that would be very cool. I would certainly enjoy that!

A few highlights from the article:

Dutch researchers publishing their work in the British Medical Journal showed that older swingers — those over the age of 45 — are particularly vulnerable and yet are a group largely ignored by healthcare services.

With estimates that the swinger population could be many millions across the world, the scientists said there was a risk this untreated group could act as an STI “transmission bridge to the entire population.”

The Dutch study analyzed the numbers of patients seeking treatment in 2007 and 2008 at three sexual health clinics in South Limburg in the Netherlands.

The clinics have recorded whether a patient is a swinger since the start of 2007, in an attempt to track infection rates among this group.

During the study period, there were just under 9,000 consultations at the three clinics. One in nine of the patients was a swinger, with an average age of 43.

Overall, combined rates of Chlamydia and gonorrhea were just over 10 percent among straight people, 14 percent among gay men, just under 5 percent in female prostitutes, and 10.4 percent among swingers, they found. And female swingers had higher infection rates than male swingers.

One in 10 older swingers had Chlamydia and around one in 20 had gonorrhea.

Read the whole story here from Reuters.

Wow, the Netherlands only had 5% infection rate in the prostitutes that sought services at the clinics. They must be doing something right over there! If you combine those numbers with the girls who never needed to seek a clinic because they are practicing safe sex, it may make the percentage of hookers in that area of the world more like 1% infected. Is this because it is legal in that part of the world, regulated, and people are given more education about safe sex?

It was such a pleasure to talk with someone who was not singularly focused on merely one thing. She had a mind that was ready to communicate about many different subjects, and she was experienced in knowing and saying what she likes. This is very unusual for me, especially what chatting online it seems. I often run into people who are so narrow, or really don’t know the things they don’t like.

Sarah, I hope to find online again soon, it was such a pleasure to have mature conversation like we did last tonight.

My new GF has a son that visits on the weekends, so I have been learning to censor what I say when he is around. I also found myself with a roommate who has moved his GF in, and she has two teenagers, so now most of the day and night we have to tip toe around adult subjects and censor what we say. Living like this for a few months has given me a glimpse of what it must be like for most people.

Not being able to talk openly about many subjects, I imagine that many people keep things bottled up that really should be discussed. I guess this is the reasons that adults only social networks and adult chat rooms are so popular these days. I understand the need to keep some conversations away from the younger ears, but adults also need to set aside time when they can talk about mature issues, and often waiting until bed time is not the best time for such important discussions.

Many times by the time we retire to the bedroom we are so tired, worn out and stressed out, that having a discussion about sexual issues, or other important adult stuff may not be the best time. We also seem to have so many other important things going on with our lives that sexual health and well being is often written off as an unnecessary pleasure that we simply can not dedicate much time to. This really needs to change. Just like many relationship experts suggest that you pen in a date, block off time each week just for taking care of the primary partner in the relationship, we also need to pen in time for important conversations. Waiting until the wee hours of the night is not the best option for that in my humble opinion.